Honeymoon Maldives

So last week was kinda panicking, because H-30 to our wedding and we have not booked our honeymoon just yet. To add the extra tension, all the good and cheap resorts in Maldives have been fully booked. What's more to that, there are literally hundreds of different resorts there and all seem nice and sooo many of them have positive reviews.
I got headache just browsing www.tripadvisor.com;  www.booking.com; and others alike.

I even read people's blogs who have been to Maldives but again I got very wide options.
I am so much aided by this website //www.overwaterbungalows.net/; you can search almost everything; resorts with glass floor, resorts for honeymoon, cheap resorts, luxury resorts. I even asked a question to the writer. hahaa so helpful, thanks Roger!! =)

Finally, I read review in Female Daily and knew OVHolidays, the agent there. And we compared the prices of the resorts we wanted in 3 different channels: tripadvisor, own website and OVholidays. Thank God we got the bestest deal!!! Will write the details and the name of the resort later, because I want to keep it a surprise. hehe

Some tips and tricks for you who want to go to Maldives:
1. Know why you want to go to Maldives ie. honeymoon in private, family vacation, celebrate anniversary, diving, drinking and partying, etc. Because each resort offers different ambience.
* If you want to go for a private honeymoon (like us), go for some private island, offering a romantic activities/honeymoon benefits, and a good villa of course (it's honeymoon, you will stay in your villa more. lol). My suggestion is go for the 4-5 star resort like Sun Siyam Iru Fushi, Centara Grand Island, Conrad, Ozen by Atmosphere, Mirihi Island, Gili Lankafushi, Cocoa Island, Lily Beach, Adaaran, Veligandu, Anantara Veli, and many more. Just choose one within your budget range. Dont forget to add the cost of the seaplane/speedboat return transfer because usually the price stated in the final booking does not include this cost. If you have specified budget then go for speedboat transfer, much cheaper, usually just around USD 150/adult; whereas seaplane can reach up to USD 300-500/adult.

But if you have a strict budget and want a good all inclusive resort and dont mind about the luxury & privacy so much, i suggest check the Meeru Island. It is relatively the cheapest among other resorts and it has positive feedback

* if you want a family vacation with kids, find a children-friendly resort. you can find the suggestion in www.overwaterbungalows.net, it is so thorough.

* if you like to drink and partying, go for an all inclusive plan because it offers free flow of beers, spirits and alcohols usually during lunch and dinner. But if you're a small eater or want to save budget go for a lesser meal plan, I suggest half-board meal plan (breakfast & dinner), because if you only take breakfast, the cost of food might be quite high, i heard, can reach up to USD 150/pax (buffet).

2. Narrow down your options to top 5 resorts, the one you like best based on review, photos, amenities and facilities. I suggest you read that www.overwaterbungalows.net first because it has categorised the resorts based on the facilities and reviews. Then compare the price, i suggest my way that is three-way price comparison ie. trip advisor (because it automatically finds the lowest room rate from expedia, hotels, booking, and own website); own website (still check the resort own website because if you book using trip advisor, it still takes commission, right?); and OV holidays. There are other agents but I use OV Holidays because I've read good reviews about it. I've seen another agent like maldivesoffer.com, etc

If you are too lazy or too busy to compare, you can always contact an agent. So far I found OV Holidays very helpful and they relatively tell which resort has the best value for money within our specific criteria. You can also check the weddingku honeymoon but after my thorough research, it is much more expensive =)

3. last but not least, always confirm whether the price stated is NET of all taxes, you dont want to pay extra money there, do you? and also confirm the price of the airport transfer (speedboat / seaplane)

Happy hunting all!!!
Will update our Maldives trip and resort later after we visit there =D

Lots of love,
Lophe

Road to my happy ending

2000-2003 - Oscar moved into SMPK4 Penabur Kelapa Gading, dunno how and where and when I just knew him and he knew me since we were in the same school

2003-2006 - We were again in the same senior high school SMAK 5 Penabur. But we were never classmates.

Jan 1st, 2014 - We first met again in GBI MOI that time during the new year's sermon. I was preparing to dance and he was usher that time. I greeted him "Hi, you're here?" (because I knew he went to university abroad).. Too bad he saw me like he didnt recognize me (and later on I figured out that he indeed didnt. sigh.. i still have that grudge,baby!! wont forget it the rest of my life.hahaha)

Dec 2014 - We met again, this time at GBI Tampak Siring. I was on my way to a dance practice and he was at the canteen arranging bus for the church event. This time he noticed me and greeted me.

Later on, according to the subsequent person, from that moment on he started to chase after me, but he still had commitment to focus on God for a year and not chasing after a girl.

May 20, 2015 - He first Whatsapp (WA) me, he knew my number from Ci Winda & Emilia.

May 24, 2015 - We first hung out - pingpong @Taman Eden Janur Elok with other SMAK friends. After pingpong we all continued to bowling @Artha Gading

May 31, 2015 - We played Auxilium escape game @Serpong. We (the girls) hitched his car. 

Jun 4, 2015 - He came to my canteen early in the morning around 7 am and brought me brownies from Bandung (Jun 2 - Waisak, he went to Bandung with his church friends). 

Since then, not a single day went by without us chatting in WA.. yepp, til now =D

Jun 7, 2015 - He went to Image church the 1st time but with our own separate car, then we went to Taman Eden Janur Elok again to have a basketball play with the SMAKers and IPEKAers.. 

This day is what i call the turning point and I say this day is the day when God showed me the answer to my prayers. What is it?? Lets read along

A bit of a hint and as a reminder, I was quite close to one of the routine badminton players (just call him X) and on May 26, he expressed his feelings to me and asked me to be his gf. Problem was, he is Catholic. haha I prayed to God and fasted since then til 40 days to get the answer to that question (yess, I asked him to wait that long.haha) I was so galau and came so close to compromising the faith difference. Until Jun 7 when He made everything so clear, at least to me.

So, what happened that day? How can two people who were so close in relationship, often hangout and kinda have feelings towards each other (yea I must admit he was kind enough and maybe i did have a lil bit of a feeling) suddenly just pulled apart? This was my galauness. At some point I wanted to say no because of the faith difference, but i was thinking if i rejected him how would we be afterwards? gonna be awkward. and the ultimate question was: will there ever be someone better or will i regret my decision if i reject him, because i kinda had that feeling towards him already. So I prayed to God to just show me the way and kill both of our feelings (his and mine) so there would not be heartbreaks. 

And BOOM.. It just happened, so fast and unpredictable. We played basketball, Oscar was still watching (because he came late). X was in the opponent team, and I didnt know what happened to him that day. Usually he was a bit passive especially in basketball (he was good in badminton though), but that time he was super duper aggressive and annoying. Took all the balls passed to anyone. And just around 5 minutes playing, he aggressively tried to take the ball passed on to me. I didnt quite understand how the exact scene was but I just felt a hard kick on my ankle and I fell. At first I thought it was just a normal sprained ankle like i often injured from; I tried to get up and to my surprise, it hurt sooooo badly and I couldnt stand, soo d**n hurt!! To cut the story short, I drove back home, crying (of course, hurt so bad!! lucky it was left ankle so i could still drive).

I didnt quite blame him at first, sh*t happens all the time. Although I once thought maybe this is a hint from God, but I didnt hate him. Yet few days later, when we texted, and I was not angry to him anymore, I asked how it happened, how I could fall. To my surprise, he answered that he didnt kick me, instead I jumped and stepped on his foot and I just fell to my own mistake. Reading his reply, I got to my nerves again, so now I stepped on him but he didnt feel any pain or anything and where the kick i felt came from then? Anyhow.. this is when i realised that he was not for me. Even just simple thing like this he didnt want to put down his ego and simply just said sorry without saying anything else just to comfort my feeling (you know girls like being comforted, even if they are wrong lol). So that was the end for me and Mr. X. Thanks God, one thing solved, even through pain hahah

Thanks to my sprained ankle, and thanks to Mr. X, and ultimately thanks Jesus Christ, since that day forward, I cannot have my sports routine again every Sunday after church. That allowed Oscar to fill my empty sunday slot every 4-6pm. LoL

Jun 14, 2015 - So this Sunday Oscar offered the pickup service to image sunday service. And due to my ankle condition, I agreed. In normal condition maybe i would think twice. Then afterwards, I said I wanted to cut my hair at MKG and he accompanied to MKG, saying he wanted to visit David in Summit Apartment. He chat and called his friend but why on earth did he still follow me? haha. So I canceled getting my haircut and we had a dinner at Beatrice Quarters instead. Our first accidental date. hahaa

and so on and so on untillllll... tadaaaaa

Aug 29, 2015 - He asked me out to dinner at Potato Head in SCBD, He made the reservation. And yes he popped the question "we have known each other for quite a long time, do you want to take it further?" I kinda stopped for a while and waited him to say something more like 'will you be my girlfriend' or something alike. but he just stopped as well. hahaha.. 

And I laughed hard. wuajakakakakka first time i ever heard this kind of expression. hahaha

So our journey began here... It was a delightful and wonderful journey full of miracles. He is like an angel sent to me from heaven. halaaah.. hahaha

Feb 14, 2016 - Val's day and yessss he proposed to me after the romantic dinner at the 8 lounge, Ritz Carlton PP

Mar 6, 2016 - Lamaran day @Angke MOI

And there follows our busy days preparing.. Thanks God it was not rempong at all.. we were quite relaxed and enjoyed the process.. It's a great experience because I know now what kind of dresses I like, what colors I like, which flowers I like more, what I want to achieve etc etc.. I just know myself more, I know that I am a bit fussy and I can bargain too (to my surprise) and of course I also know my fiance more too, what he likes and doesnt like (although he literally says good to almost everything. ahaha my pasrah and not fussy boyfriend).

Cant wait to enjoy the rest of my life with youuu, my other half!!! hahahaa

Lots of love,

Lophe

1 Corinthians 13:13New International Version (NIV)13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

Lophe's back!!!

Heyhoheyhoooo I am back!!!!

The huge question is: why on earth would I write again?

It is simply because... drumroll please... haha (Im still as lebay as before) I am on my way to my biggest leap in my life and I just want to write this down (I've tried writing it on mobile phone diary and bad thing was everytime i changed phones, I lost it =( ). And another reason is because I am soo much helped by the blogs and reviews I read on the internet about all kinds of stuff; so, just hope that if anyone has ever experienced the same galauness as me, maybe they can take a peek to my long abandoned blog and find some helpful info as well (with some spices -read:cuap2 of course lol)

Okehh thats all for the come back intro

Lots of love,
Lophe

Bittersweet of Life

kyny judulnya kurang tpat.. mstinya ga ad sweetnya.. cos that's what i'm feelin rite now. so bitter.. so guilty..

baru slese submit application buat master's degree, tp harus susahin byk org. yah gini deh gaenaknya jd org gaenakan tp cpet emosi.. cpet bertindak tnp pikir tlalu mateng. alhasil... byk gaenaknya.. byuh... gr2 tlalu gaenakan, byk harus nyimpen own will just to make others not feeling annoyed nor bothered. is this really a good etiquette? should i really bury my own will/hopes/dreams just not to bother others? hayaa....

life?? so sweet.. yet so bitter... but the bitter, that makes the sweet sweeter.. hahaha...

HE'll find a way.. AMEN!!

ps: bwt smua pihak yg pnh i susahin/ repotin sorry yak.. haah...

good day!!

ckckck... n thx, though

seumur hidup i, i ga pnh se-stress ini gara2 just 1 assignment. beneran deh tuh assgmt Communication in Business (CIB) 100 really2 drove me insane!!!!!! ada pake turnitin an segala lagi. ckckck... sungguh minta ampyun dah!!! nanti masi ada final report lagi. moga2 i ga perlu 2x upload turnitin lagi deh ah... nanti i mo uploadnya 1 hr sblm hr H ah.. jd ga usah minta2 si gurunya apus2in dlu.. ckckck....

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Jumat ini mo nari bwt Jumat agung... tp kaki i kmaren bs pas aja tuh kepletek... pdhl si i tau dsitu ada turunan and emg i jg uda napak, tp ga tau tuh, namanya ud nasib ya bs aja pas napak tuh kepletek... ga jatoh sih, tp koq entah bs sakit yah.haha... alhasil kmrn latian nari sambil mnahan sakit. untung ada silven n obat2an tradisionalnya. dgn jahe yg dibungkus di kaki, skrg kaki i ud mendingan.haha... thx everybody.. n esp, thx God... biarpun 1-2mgg blakangan hdp i lg gila bgt sibuk n stressnya.. tp i yakin ini proses pendewasaan.haha...

selaen silven, i jg mo thx bwt keti soale dy jg ud berbaik hati mau print-in turnitin attachment i gara2 i males ke kampus lagi.haha.. thx yahh.. oiya silven jg ud ngebantuin dititipin assgmt tadi, trus di rmh dia i jg numpang print turnitin feedback yg ptama pula gara2 i lupa print.hehehe... tp ga kepake jg deh jadinya.haha.. okelah.. smua pihak yg mrasa terlibat n patut di'trimakasih'kan.. trimakasih yaa....

Gilaaa!!!!!!

Wuah ga nyangka banget final semester ternyata hectic gila!! pdhl mah pikiran agak santai coz plajaran2penting ud pada diambil semua, tgl sisa yg ga jelas ga jelas gtu. eh taunya yg ga jelas itu (2 biji) berbuah keringat, kerja keras, n menyita waktu.. ckckck... sungguh pengorbanan yg amat sangat ya untuk lulus.hahaha...

tadi barusan mid accounting taxation, kemaren mid consumer behavior. 2 pelajaran yg berbeda total dijadikan test yg berentetan. 2-2nya pagi2 lagi. td ampir aja telat. jm7-stg8 gt baru bgn. untung dgn keahlian nyetir bak pro n mobil yg sudah cukup memadai (bisa 120kmph.huahaha..) jd ga telat deh.haha...

berhubung skrg upi mengeluarkan rule baru yg sungguh 'TERLALU' jayusnya : no more hints for any subjects; yah kita si (at least gw) ngerasa pas belajar biasa2aja (paling agak binun mo blj drmn.hehe) tp kemudian pas tesnya yah alhasil jd diskusi kelas bersama, even involving the teacher n the book!! hahaha...

yg parah kerjasamanya si kemaren tuh... beneran dah!! sungguh tak usah dicritain deh (males si sbnrny.hehe).. yg tadi si pd nanya2juga, tp posisi i ga pw, paling kanan pojok whlist gurunya bykn ke kiri pojok. yauda lah yah, i konsen ndiri aja.huahaha. ud tu duduk plg pojok kiri jg ga enak coz dikumpulnya paling duluan. byuh!!! bt abiz. pdhl detik2trakir i menyadari klo mortgage discharge i tuh salah (mustinya masuk deductible expense eh i malah anggep capital--alasan di excludenya aja uda salah.ckckck...) tp si 'mba' ayu uda dgn sangarnya nagih2tes i,yasuw lah... tmn dpn i blg, "salah ndiri dr tadi konsen sndiri aja, td kan ud dibahas tuh" walah... i ga dgr bo!!hahaha...

yah sudahlah, kami murid2 upi angkatan accounting finance (yg sekelas am gw) sungguh memasrahkan diri pd Tuhan YME.. semoga 'budi bakti' kami kpd upi (dgn ga protes n nge-sue tu uni karena ga kc hints n karena membrikan pelajaran2 butut di semester crucial kami), dan jerih payah serta 'kepolosan' kami dlm mengerjakan ulangan (polos karena bnr2 blank, putih bersih, ga ngerti soalnya apaan... ;p) bs ditrima disisiNya.hahahahahahahhahaha.... mulai deh jayusnya..


hahahhaha... uda ah..tambah gila deh... bntar lg si dududz mo dtg, i blom mandi lagi. byuh... bntar yah, i'm coming!!.....

Skating with Dudutz

Tadi abis skating ama si dudutz.. ahahahaaa... lucu skali...stelah skian lama ga maen eh tyt pas ke5 kali nya i maen tadi yah uda agak canggung gtu.. awal2si masi kaya org blun maen dipinggiran ga brani ke tengah, nyebrang aja ga brani.haha.. si dudutz lbih parah dy bdiri aja ga tegak.huahaha.... tp asli senang skali n lucu abizzz yah klo dipikir2..kan awal2maen i jg blom ngajarin apa2 ke si dudutz, i masi asik2 aja lancarin kaki sendiri. muter1-2 puteran sambil mc berpegangan pada pinggiran takut jatoh (soale ni hari ud berniat ga mo jato!!! baju i putih n jato tu sakit.hehe..) eh entar stelah brp lama gtu (kyny si ga lama stlh qt masuk rink) pas i baru balik dr 1 puteran melihat si baju merah dudutz eh koq ada yg pegang2 gtu. whoaah... ada apa gerangan??eh ternyata si pegang2tu berbaik hati ngajarin si dududez krn cewenya asik sndiri muter2.huehehe... maaf yak.hehe... i jg blom lancar soale, butuh warm up. eh taunya ud dpt instructor yg lbih jago duluan.huahaha...sep sep.. =)

huahahahaha.. klo diinget2 bner2 luchu yah.. selama i 4 kali maen sblumnya baru kali ini doank dapet tmn dari skating. namanya klo ga salah si rendy, aji (ato haji gtu), darius ama marco deh. huehehe... ditulis aja deh namanya buat knang2an biar ga lupa, sapa tau nanti ketemu lagi.hehehe...thx yah tman2 baru yg ud nolongin 'nemenin' si dudez n thx juga ya dudez ud bare with me maen skate slama ampir 2 jem. akirnya starvation lah yg menyelamatkan si endy dr 'neraka'nya bermain ice skate. hehehe... perut i kroncongan super duper amat sngat skali so qt cabut deh jm 7 kurang15an gtu. langsung serbu hokben. nyamm... uda ga pduli rasa deh, yg pnting perut diem.hehe.. oh iya sblm skate qt sempet cobain sour sally. hmm... rame sih (insting consumer behaviour nya lgsg kluar nih. lolz) tp mnrt i rasanya so-so aja.. ga seheboh apa gtu. bis kan di kelas cb sering bgt dibilang sour sally teruss.. pikiran mah rasanya selangit, ky new zealand ato cold stone gtu eh tyt sih manis asem2 gtu.. ud itu pake pebble warna2 yg menyeramkan tp mau ga mau ya dimakan jg coz 35 ribu bo!! ato mgkn i yg salah pesenkah?? i pesenny yg twist deh klo ga salah. stroberi campur original+ pebble+longan. ud tu abang admin nya juteq lagi. namany i baru ptama bli ya wajar dunkz tanya2 eh dy jwb dgn muka tanpa expresi gtu. byuhh... males dah... klo smua karyawanny gtu biarpun enak gmn kyny ga bs rame2 bgt dah.. wong ga ngerti mo pesen apa didiemin aja. malah pas ditanya juga jawabny ala kadarnya bgt. byuhh.... capedeh.. si endy makan sour sally lgsg pusing ktny .hahaha.... emg ga bs makan yg manis2 (ato yg asem2 yah??hehe)..

yah gtu deh. akirnya abis hokben-an qt caoo deh aka pulang.hehe..tu mgkn jm stg8 an deh kyny. pas di tolnya agak macet dkt deket kluaran priok biasalah, kn ada pnyempitan jln gtu. n sempet ada ketegangan antara i n dudez soale dy 'kumat' ke-bawelan nya (pdhl lagi asik2 ngobrol) trus i jg spt biasa lagi 'jetlag' di mobil aka penyakit ngantuk tiap masuk mobil so i diem aja deh... eh dy ngerasa ndiri dy kbawelan.hauahhaa.. ok ok peningkatan2.huehehe...oiya ada lagi hal yg super lucu, ampir klupaan. pas sepuluh detik sblm stop maen skating, i kan mo go for last round, trus i ajak si dudez donk, mo i tarik ajak muterin tu rink, eh ntah napa dy malah jato keplintir lagi kakinya. byuhh... uda deh.. ud ptanda buruk.. balik aja dah.. oh ga2, tyt i masi sempet muter 2x puteran lagi baru qt udahan. prut i ud ga bs kompromi.hehehe... gtu dhe.. maap ya, D.. jadi kplintir kakinya.. tp bener kt u kan, "tak ada noda tak belajar" huaehe.... (cari excuse gtu.hehe)

ya gtu deh.. udalah laen kali ga ajak u skate lagi lah... parah abiz!! huahaha...

okedeh... thx n sory ya,D. i really enjoyed d skate, though. huaaahahaha... okd.Gb all (n me ^^)
oiya thx juga ya yg ud mo jadi followers blog jadoel ini. jadoel karena jarang didoeluin alias ya pentingin sekolah maen2, belajar, maen2, jalan2, maen2 dkk drpd isi blog.hehehe..


Lophe in JC,


Pheen_dee^^

Been a while

Huaa... It's been a while!!! ga tau juga mau tulis apa. terlalu banyak kejadian terjadi.uda itu cepat skali waktu berlalu yakh. tau2 uda febuari ajah... ckckck... ini masi baru kuliah, gmana nanti uda lulus?uda kerja? wuahh.. harus lebih enjoy life nih. byk places yg blom dikunjungi, byk kegiatan yg blom dilakukan.. haha... (tiba2jd sentimentil)

btw, i'm a bit confused bout this new blog. is it just me or google has changed the way to post a comment?now i have to enter keyword or somethin like that. it's pretty bothersome. hyuh... niwey, i also wonder this 'Follower' thing. apa gunanya yah, n most importantly, anyone interested to be my 'Follower'???? guess not.huaha... never mind, though

1 more week til exam. and 1 more week til the peak of the rainfall i.e. flood.haha... hope God will be lenient this time, pliz God, i've had two flood experience in 1 month, and that's more than enough!!!! the cycle is for 5 years, but for the past two years it shifts to every year, n for this year (the worst EVER!!) it becomes twice a year (or a month to be more precised. hmph!...) and i dont know if it will become 3times a year?!.... we'll soon be back to Noah's era. haha..

Welcome

Welcome to my new blog... sebenernya sih uda males bikin2 blog lagi, tapi yah sekedar buat cerita2 juga deh. hehe..

Okey sebelum mulai nulis2 ga jelas ada baiknya dijelaskan dulu feature2 yang ada di blogger ini. hehe

Pre-new year's reflection

Dear diary,

it's so not me to write down my new year's reflection in blog, but, since today i have nothing to do and i'm in a very 'sentimental' mood, thus there's this blog.

few days ago i chatted with a friend, usually it used to be a so ordinary topic that i forgot right after. but then, she asked me 'this year is full of new things for me: drinks, cigarettes, degree. how's yours?'. if i were in a classic thriller drama, i would suggest extra thunder and lightning struck above my head. point is: yes, i stopped typing (which used to be so easy) and thought. my! how's my year going? i don't even realize christmas is over and new year is just a few days ahead. and my year? i can't say it's my best. i haven't done anything valuable not to mention important. i haven't let out the best of me. i often let my outrage and hatred fill my emotion and boom... regret everything in the end.

regret. one word i hate the most. i swear to myself long time ago that i would NEVER regret a thing, cause everything has made myself me at present. but this year, i don't really like what i have formed myself into. i mean it. i'm losing my 'moxie' (amelia earheart in the Night at the Museum 2). the guy in the movie, Larry Daley, finally found his moxie by doing what he likes and being with the people he loves.

i kind of think the same way except sometimes i don't know if what i like is good for me and others; but the point about being with the people you love is totally true. this year (inspite of the regret thingy), thank God i got more chance to travel and explore the world in such a young age. travelling is one of the things i love the most. nevertheless, somehow i feel that doing what you like without the people you love (and the ones who love you) is just not enough. (ouch i just cut it there, it makes my homesick even worse)

well, bottom line is I MISS MY FAMILY, MY ROOM, MY FRIENDS, MY HOME!!!! no, that's not the real bottom line, that's just my real feeling ;p. bottom line of my pre-new year's reflection is: regardless where you are, what you like, and how you do the things you like; more important thing is --L-O-V-E--, cause only with that your happiness is complete. ;p

being able to go abroad and do things you like, that's cool.
being able to go somewhere with people you love, that's fun.
being able to go somewhere with people you love and people who love you, that's blessing.
being able to STAY with people you love and people who love you, that's eternal happiness. =) =D =) =D

God bless United States i.e. God bless US!!! haha.. amen

Missing you...

1 kesalahan kecil berakibat fatal...


19 maret 2009

sebelum les mandarin jm stg4, i lupa (tpatnya males sih) iket Perize aka Paris. pulang les tau2 ud ga ad. entah kemana... kmungkinan2: nyasar (0.001%), ketabrak mobil (0.00000000000000000000000000000000001%), dicolong orang (99%), lain2 (sisanya)sampe saat ini Paris masih dilaporkan hilang. satpam2 gerbang n keliling sudah dikonfirmasikan untuk membantu mencari n mengabari. tp masi blom ada tanda2 paris.hixhix..


Perize,帕丽丝(dulu namany gini bukan sih? lupa.haha)，i miss u so much!!!

Happy Good Friday!!!

barusan isi acara gereja bwt jumat agung aka good friday, gw dibikin byk ngerenung, mulai dr praise service (or whatever that's called) bareng rekan2pekerja ppw sampe ketika i selese kebaktian dan pulang ke rumah, dan diingetin lagi skrg pas i isi ni blog. sblm event nya lewat n i terlalu males bwt nulis, i tulis skrg deh.hehehe

i ngerasa klo jumat agung kali ini tuh beda dr taon2sblmnya. jauh lbih dpt maknanya. bukan krn jmt agung th ini i habiskan di gereja, bukan jg i habiskan latian nari bwt playanan, jg bukan i habiskan ama si dudutz... tp yg bikin beda adalah, semua proses (terutama2-4minggu terakhir) dan kejadian2yg i alami...

1. mulai dari hilangnya Paris (19 Mar 09). sungguh tak disangka kejadian itu bs tjd gtu aja.. bahkan sampe berminggu2 i masi 'terbuai' ato terbingung2, kok bisa ya... karena hal yg bgitu sepele bs tjd hal yg bgitu besar (at least bwt i, paris tu more than just a pet, 'she' is more like my most bestest fren ever!!! even she's like my own 'child' (coz she so likes to be spoiled, esp by me, and how she always tries to do 'tricks' e.g. roll, sit, sleep, shake, to get my attention and get affection)... oh how i miss her!!!! even now whenever i look at her pictures, i still can hardly believe that she's no longer mine... not here... not now... (ciee... dialognya titanic bgt y.hehe..). pokoke paris tu important bgt deh. sungguh2 penting that losing her is like losing part of me!!!!

2. tugas n test yg slalu datang tak kunjung slese (sampe si endy aja binun, ya ga??hahah... maap ya terabaikan n jd ikutan kena distressin.hahhaa..) mulai dr cb (consumer behaviour) individual assignment n mid test, accounting taxation quiz1 and midtest, plus yg paling parah adalah cib (comm in business) individual assgmt interim report yg duenya tgl 8april alias hari rabu kmrn. byuhhh!!! bnr2 tugas terstress spanjang sejarah perstudian i (dari tk ampe skrg tu yg paling byuhh bgt).

3. selagi sibuk2nya kuliah, waktu jg mepet bwt mempersiapkan koreo (aka. koreografi) bwt nari pas jmt agung. i couldnt miss this opportunity!!! nari bareng ci yolan (yg punya Clay Dance) n anak2 rock yg worshipnya yoi bgt, wuihh!!! it's really a great honour!! kalo latian yg padat si no prob, tp yg bikin bt nya adalah: tengterententennnnnnn.... hari selasa tgl 7april09, dimana nanti malemnya i bakal latian bareng bwt slesein gaya, n rabunya review (optional sih) trus kamisnya GR (Gladi Resik) n jumatnya perform, eh ada aja, pas lg mo pulang kul (sore2gtu, maybe jm stg7an) eh tau2 kaki i kepletek tanpa alasan yg cukup reasonable.ckckck... alhasil malemnya bner2latian dgn sengsara... rabunya jg mengistirahatkan kaki, ga ikut review bareng. kamisnya jg GR dtgnya jm stg3an lwt gtu (mustiny jm2)

nah dr smua kejadian tu yg mnurut i bner2 gila, krn klo dalam keadaan biasa2 n nyantai2 si ok2 aja, tp smua tuh kjadianny bnr2 tak terduga n tpat pada waktu yg tidak pas... misal: i lg bner2butuh kaki (bahkan krn kaki i mgg sebelumny jg sakit tnp alasan yg jelas jg, so sminggu ini i kuliah pun pake spatu bwt mnjaga kaki spy jgn ampe cidera lagi menjelang tampil ampe tmn2pd binun). iya lanjut, dr smua kjadian tu, i br dicelikkan matanya tadi... td pas doa2 gtu, ada nyemplok satu ayat, isinya kira2 gini:"berbahagialah mereka yg menderita ato dicobai gtu deh, karena mereka bs merasakan bagian penderitaan Tuhan".

i jg inget klo qt mo ikut Tuhan, qt harus rela menyangkal diri n meninggalkan smua yg kita sayang, di alkitab contohny lbih ekstrim: musti ninggalin sanak saudara.. nah loh... hahah...yg no.1 tadi i kehilangan paris, mgkn karena paris tu berharga bwt i, n Tuhan mo i menyangkal diri, dgn merelakan dy dipiara am org yg lbih ngurus n care ama dy, lbih py byk waktu bwt dia... (amen!!)

trus jg yg no.2 and 3.., esp yg no 3 coz tu bnr2menyiksa bgt n i sering bgt bertanya2:"knp si Tuhan? i kan mo melayani di jumat agung pula, perform yg lbih dr skedar perform biasa, tp knp ada aja halangannya??" sampe2 i mikir jangan2tujuan i menari salah so i dont deserve to dance for Him. wahhh... bner2 dah, tersiksa abizz!!!

nah tadi i dpt pencerahan, apalagi pas disupport dgn meliat video dr cuplikan film 'the Passion of the Christ' yg pas bagian Dia disalib n disiksa, n diadili. wuahhh... i bener2 ter-... ter apa ya?? tersadar gtu, wah, Tuhan aja menderita sgitu parah ga ngeluh, tu Dia menderita bwt aku loh, gara2 manusia2inilah Allah harus nge-relain AnakNya yg tunggal (mirip kan ama i merelakan Paris yg tunggal, ya ga ya ga??hehehhe..jk). masa i yg cuman segini aja mewek sih.. itulah yg nguatin i untuk terus maju n ikut latian (nekadz) biarpun kaki n fisik kurang mendukung (abis sembuh dr sakit bahkan masi suka keleyengan). sampe hr rabu malam pun kaki i mc diperban, mc blom bs lari n jinjit.

tp mujizat dahsyat tjd pas hari kamis, GR.pdhl i jalan masi agak tergopoh2, eh taunya pas sampe GAC (Gading Auto Centre) tempat bakal narinya hari jumat, eh lgsg semangat n tau2ud bs nari dgn normal (walo masi agak sakit2dikit sih).ckckck... emg dahsyat!!!! n hari jumatnya,i.e. hari ini, kami smua bs menari dgn baik, at least i've tried my best, n baru kali ini i bener2 memaknai lagu yg i tariin esp pas "dalamnya kasihMu Bapa" and "Worthy is the Lamb"... bahkan mujizat besar jg terjadi on the spot buat lagu worthy is the Lamb. kmrn qt gaya blom jadi sempurna, blocking jg kacao abis (si endy sbagai saksi.hehe) gaya blom pada apal.. tapi tadi pas nari... wuahhh kushuk, n wuoooaaahhh bgt!!! i pas liat rekamannya jg jadi "whoaaa.... keren abizzz!!! Thx God!!!" hahaha.... smoga aja tuh video bs diposting di facebook (tp ada 1 yg aib abizz!!ehehhee..smoga ga dipost) tp seneng banget, krn dari smua kejadian itu, i jd bs bner2memaknai makna pengorbanan Allah n Tuhan di jumat agung, yg biasanya i lalui dgn gtu2aja...hahahaha....


YEY!!! WE ALL ARE MORE THAN WINNERS!!!!!! praise d Lord and Happy Good Friday, feel Him and His sacrifice!!!

Setengah tahun sudah

ga kerasa uda stengah taon ngejalanin th 2009.. i must say this year is really a tough year. perhaps the toughest in my whole life.. so many things i've to go through, and all of them are so darn crazy and hard. whenever i remember those moments n things, i could almost feel the very bit of the hardwork in going through that moment. haahhh...

now the semester has ended, a new beginning for a new part of my life will soon start. dunno what wil happen next. so many things i've done wrong (definitely maybe... lolz) yet i stil have no idea how to fix them. i believe i could go crazy if only my God and fam were not there beside me to comfort and cherish me.. for that, i really thank them, esp my God!!

yepp.. nu life will soon begin.. maybe some things have ended, and they might not have ended up as good as i've imagined but i'm sure they will be alright soon. amen...

hyuhh.. so many things to tell, yet cant express my feelings, cant find perfect words to describe it. so tired.. arrghh!!..

Blog Update: Writing

Applying to reputable universities, writing CVs and resumes, making corporate reports, doing assignments and projects, answering final exam questions, and even creating attractive and easy-to-read blogs require excellent writing skills.

What is your impression when reading newspaper articles, columnist's journals, or even novels? "no idea, I only read the headings and look at the pictures", or "yea, understandable, the plot is good, so what?"

Hey, wake up, pals!! Try to make your own story, or at least write a page of whatever you want, if you do not end up just staring at that blank page for an hour or two. Just now I read a guide on 'Rules for Writers' the fifth edition, I must say that reading even less than twenty pages had made my eyes wide open of the complicated, intriguing zone a writer ought to face; starting from the planning (i.e. choosing and determining your topic, subtopics, target audience, and finding supporting documentations) to the drafting--the second part, which is, well, the furthest I could read so far. ouch...

Some of you might wonder why on earth I am reading such a book. Believe me, though, before I read an action-thriller novel written by 'the best selling novelist'--as the book quotes--and 3 pages to go to the end of chapter one, I have found myself nodding up and down sleeping, without even understanding what I have read (or should I say, stared?? hmm..). First factor, the novel is the continuation of previous 3 novels and I never read them; second, my very minimum English proficiency; or third, maybe I am not the correct target reader (read: the writing is just not suitable for me). Hence, pre-determining the target reader would heavily conclude the success of the writing.

I am not a big fan of thriller stories so reading such words as non-human, prey, and other nonsense made me bored and less interested. On the other hand, I have long wanting to enhance my writing skills thus reading that guidebook made me think of what I should do in the future to make my writing more well readable. But as a formula projects, 'theory-practice=0' then excessive theories must be balanced again with excessive practice. This is what triggers me to reactivate my long-hibernated blog (despite there is no winter time in Jakarta ;p).

As such, warm welcome to all existing and, hopefully, new readers!!! Nevertheless, I do not bother determining my target reader as I know perfectly clear that the loyal reader would be... ME; thus, I write the way I like, all the things that pass my brain, and this technique is called--FREE-WRITING (Hacker 2004). cheers ^^

Susahnya jadi ibu

Minggu lalu baru liat video REAL proses ibu melahirkan secara NORMAL. lgsg kepikiran porno?? wah Anda salah besar! emg si bagian bawahnya ibu itu keliatan, tp kesan mendalam yg lbih teringat (bahkan sampai skrg) adalah btapa ngerinya melahirkan!!! huaa... dr gimana tau2 muncul pala bayi trus susahny tu pala kuar, sampe suster musti dikit2 tarik tu kpala sambil diputer dikit trus pas uda kluar, ternyata tu bayi ga langsung nangis!! dah ada rambut pula.haha..

itu bayi baru nangis pas plasentanya dipotong trus diangkat ama suster, mgkn mo dibersihin.. i baru tau tyt potong plasenta jg ga asal potong aja, plasentanya musti ditahan gunting biar ga masuk lagi, knp? coz kalo ga ditahan, ada kmungkinan bakal masuk lg n bisa ngelilit jantung, yah inna li lahi (ga tau nulisnya..maap klo ad yg tersinggung) deh ibunya..

uda itu, yg bikin teramat serem adalah: darahnya banyak!!! wuaa!!!! huhu... ngeri bgt, bgitu byk cairan2 menggelikan n darah2 yg ngalir terus walo anaknya dah kuar.. kesiannya tu ibu.. (mgkn suatu saat i jg akan bgitu ya..huhu..) pantesan ya.. ada peribahasa kasih ibu spanjang masa.. gimana ga, wong harus pertaruhin nyawa demi melahirkan.. pantesan juga byk org yg gamo punya anak ato mo jalan pintas operasi caesar. recalling my mom who has experienced it TWICE, hmm.. i really appreciate her the most!! thx mom!!

New Lophe

Akhirnya kebikin juga blog baru ini. krn banyak hal dan byk faktor yg terjadi dlm kehidupan i, so i named this blog after those NEW experiences in the NEW year where i start my NEW life, so that makes it 'New Lophe'.eheheheee..

hmm.. seharusnya si i menjelaskan segala features yang ada di blog ini yah, tp berhubung connection yang ala kadarnya, featuresnya sendiri pun blom diupdate. tp yg jelas i akan introduce beberapa features yg cukup berguna n mgkn beberapa orang ga ngerti.hehe... salah satunya adalah Link (ga tau jg nanti bakal dinamain apa). disini bakal dimasukkin link2 website yg sering i pake, misalnya: facebook (fb), friendster(fs) (moga2 bs langsung ke-direct ke account i), trus blog si spaces jg yg mengungkap kisah dan fakta masa lalu yg dikupas tajam setajam... silet. wakakaa.. ada2 aja infotainment zaman skrg.haha.. lanjut, ada lagi yg mungkin kurang familiar, yakni PICASA. ini web tuh berguna buat simpen n share photo video dkk. so, bykn klo ad foto2 baru, versi lengkapnya ya i upload di picasa ini, bukan di fb apalagi fs. soale klo d fb tuh ya klo org upload fotonya, resolutionnya jd berkurang (krn ud disesuain sndiri ama fb nya kan) so klo di save/donlod ama org laen yg kebetulan berminat donlod karena fotonya ada disitu, ya jd kurang bagus. gtu loh mnrt i.ga tw bnr ga.haha..

gtu aja deh kyny... oiya sama mgkn di blog baru ini, hmm.. apanya ya yg baru?? haha.. mgkn bakal sering ditambain artikel2 penambah wawasan drpd cuman cuap2 i yg ga jelas (tp tau lah kadar sering nya i. 1bln blom tentu skali.haha..) trus jg i mo latian berbahasa asing, so jgn kaget n norak y klo liat entry yg berbahasa aneh.keke... gtu aja lah...


Peace n Lophe,

^^Lophe^^